We are unpacking, unlearning, and re-examing The Law of Attraction

September 23, 2022

Maybe we've been getting it wrong all along.

What is happening at The Coaching Guild this week?

We are shaking some shit up. You should read this post because it may explain why some would-be coaches might NOT want to choose The Coaching Guild for training. We are unpacking, unlearning, and re-examing The Law of Attraction. 

It is a lot. 



Law of Attraction, as most people learn it is a dogma that comes out of a “spiritual community”. At this point, that “spiritual community” is a damn dumpster fire. The LOA community is riddled with fallout from toxic positivity. It harbors a lot of elitism that provides shaded cover for attitudes of veiled or not so veiled white supremacy. The law of attraction community hides in the haze of victim-blaming and mood-shaming. 


It is led by a cadre of gurus who can’t find a place in their “follow your feel-good” work for difficult conversations about privilege and social justice. Putting it lightly, it is a bad look. Going deeper, most of those law of attraction teachings that come out of the “spiritual” community are bad science taught as fact out of the mouths of teachers, authors, and coaches who have questionable ethics in pursuit of profit. 


Yes, I said it. 


But it is not a secret. It’s been pretty apparent because the LOA community has made no attempts to clean up its values or reputation. If you disagree with the “all smiles all the time” approach to creating your own reality, it’s because you’re focused on something negative. You just need to work on your alignment. Am I right? 


And if you know me, this might sound hypocritical. I built my career as a law of attraction coach. I’ve made good money as an LOA coach. 


It has taken longer than I like to admit to extract myself and my coaching practice from the spiritual LOA industrial complex. That said, despite it all, solid science proves out deliberate creation principles. This is why deliberate creation might be very important for coaches to understand. 


Science-based deliberate creation isn’t an opinion. It is a set of facts. Most people won’t want to devote themselves to understanding the science. So, I will give you the Cliff Notes: We live in a focus-driven field. Period. End of Story. 

When a coach can help a client harness the power of their focus things change in ways that feel miraculous but are actually quite predictable.We know enough from the science side to know better than to throw the proverbial baby out with the guru-infested bathwater. 


We are doing things differently at The Coaching Guild. There are no channelers, no gurus, no conspiracy theories, no big-name Hay House authors, and no bullshit. If you are looking for a program that will rehash Abraham Hicks teachings, look elsewhere. The Coaching Guild is teaching deliberate creation from a solely science-based perspective and it is glorious.If you’re curious about where artists, rebels, creatives, and wild ones are getting the best coach training, you should check us out.


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By Abdul Rahman May 8, 2025
When working as a coach, understanding your client's personality can truly transform how effective your sessions are. People have different ways of communicating, and knowing how to tailor your approach can make all the difference. For coaches, one of the most common personality types you'll encounter is extroversion. Extroverted clients thrive on interaction and social environments, making them dynamic but sometimes challenging to coach without the right approach. Grasping the nuances of personality in coaching helps build trust and enhances results. Extroverts often enjoy being social and spontaneous, making a lively and engaging session more effective for them. A coach's ability to adapt these elements into their strategy can lead to more meaningful interactions and successful outcomes. By catering to their vibrant nature, you ensure that your coaching resonates well and delivers the impact you aim for. Understanding Extroverted Clients Extroverts are known for their lively, outgoing personalities. They draw energy from being around others and thrive in interactive settings. These individuals often enjoy talking things out, participating in group activities, and aren't shy about sharing their thoughts. Motivation for extroverts often comes from external sources, like the people around them or the fast-paced environment they're in. When you think about coaching an extroverted client, consider how these traits can influence your approach. They generally prefer discussions over written communications and often value immediate feedback. Here are a few ways extroverted traits can shape their preferences: - Interaction-Driven: They favor engaging and responsive communication where both sides actively participate. - Visual and Verbal Learning: Extroverts often grasp concepts better through discussions, role-playing, and visual aids. - Feedback-Oriented: Quick responses and constructive feedback can keep them motivated and on track. Understanding these qualities means you can tailor your coaching strategies to be more responsive and engaging, leading to what feels like a productive partnership rather than a one-way interaction. Adapting Your Communication Style Communicating effectively with extroverted clients involves injecting energy and enthusiasm into your sessions. These clients respond well to a setting that matches their vibrant nature. Consider how your voice, gestures, and even your facial expressions can project positivity and engagement. This doesn't mean you have to completely change who you are; rather, it's about matching their energy level to create a more dynamic interaction. Regularly show interest in their inputs to keep them motivated and involved. Active listening is another critical component when coaching extroverts. They want to know that their thoughts and opinions are valued. By actively listening, you show them you care about their perspective. It's equally important to provide immediate feedback. Extroverts appreciate knowing how they are doing right then and there, which helps them feel understood and helps them adjust accordingly if needed. Use feedback as a tool to encourage and guide them, reinforcing their strengths while gently steering them away from unproductive habits. Techniques for Effective Engagement To keep extroverted clients fully engaged, incorporate exciting and interactive activities into your sessions. Group coaching can be particularly effective as these clients enjoy sharing ideas with peers. This environment encourages collaboration and discussion, which can result in new insights and a deeper understanding of the material. If group sessions aren't possible, simulate this interaction by using role-playing exercises. Here are a few practical techniques you might consider: - Interactive Discussions: Encourage clients to discuss ideas and share opinions to foster a collaborative learning atmosphere. - Visual Aids: Use charts, diagrams, and videos to appeal to their preference for visual learning. - Mini Workshops: Plan brief, informal workshops within sessions where clients can test out new concepts in a supportive setting. These activities can make learning more enjoyable for your extroverted clients, keeping them actively involved in their own progress. Building Rapport with Extroverts Creating a strong rapport is fundamental to any coaching relationship, especially with extroverted clients. They usually appreciate coaches who are personable and approachable. Open communication builds trust and encourages them to share freely, which can lead to more effective sessions. Offering genuine praise and recognition for their efforts can boost their confidence. Acknowledge their achievements, no matter how small, to encourage continued engagement. Finding common ground or shared interests can also enhance your connection, making sessions more enjoyable for both parties. Final Thoughts Tailoring your communication to fit the unique needs of extroverted clients can lead to rewarding results. By understanding their traits and adapting your methods, you create a learning environment that resonates with them. This approach not only bolsters their growth but also enhances your effectiveness as a coach. Always be willing to adjust and refine your techniques, reflecting on what works best for each individual, to keep your coaching strategies fresh and impactful. Tailoring your communication techniques for extroverted clients can significantly boost your effectiveness as a coach and deepen your connection with them. If you're looking to refine your approach and explore effective strategies in more depth, consider finding out more about coaching for extroverts with The Coaching Guild. Our resources are designed to help you create meaningful coaching experiences that resonate with your clients and promote growth.
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