3 Reasons I Chose to be a Life Coach

September 24, 2022

It's probably not what you think.

When I tell people I am a life coach, it’s always a conversation starter. 

People understand the concept a lot more than they did ten years ago. However, still, the idea of life coaching seems mysterious to most who are working traditional 9-5 jobs. So, I get questions, and the most common question is, “Why?”

Most people expect me to say I do it because I enjoy helping people – which is true. However, I wouldn’t put that in the top three reasons I chose to be a life coach. My motivations are more personal, maybe self-serving than that. 


  1. I chose to be a life coach because I didn’t want to put my children in daycare. This decision wasn’t without a unique set of challenges. Building a business and doing client sessions with a kid in the house is not easy. However, with some in-home childcare support, it has been possible in a way working a traditional 9-5 would not have allowed. Both of my boys have grown up with mom in the house. Both of them had to learn to respect my work boundaries. Both of them have a deep understanding of entrepreneurship in ways most adults do not. Every member of my family, including my husband, has had to make sacrifices to support my career. It hasn’t always been easy, but I wouldn’t do it any other way. The payoff has been 1000% worth it. 
  2. Location independence is essential to me. I never wanted to be tied to working in place. However, the ability to work remotely outside of the U.S. has been a gift I can’t put a price on. My ability to support our family living in Mexico has profoundly changed our quality of life. Without coaching, we would still be living in Washington State, dependent on my husband’s traditional employment. We can live anywhere we want to because as long as I have an internet connection, I can work while we roam the planet. 
  3. I make my hours and set my salary. I will be honest, I value time more than money. However, as a coach, I have more control over both than I ever did in traditional employment. I work four days a week. I set my hours and rates. I have time for myself and my family most working mothers simply do not. I also have the financial freedom to enjoy that time. 
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Bonus: Most established coaches will tell you this profession is uniquely recession-proof. It’s true. Many people assume coaching is a budget luxury. However, for most clients, it is the opposite. Many people will prioritize coaching when the financial waters are wavier because they know from experience the investment pays off. 


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When working as a coach, understanding your client's personality can truly transform how effective your sessions are. People have different ways of communicating, and knowing how to tailor your approach can make all the difference. For coaches, one of the most common personality types you'll encounter is extroversion. Extroverted clients thrive on interaction and social environments, making them dynamic but sometimes challenging to coach without the right approach. Grasping the nuances of personality in coaching helps build trust and enhances results. Extroverts often enjoy being social and spontaneous, making a lively and engaging session more effective for them. A coach's ability to adapt these elements into their strategy can lead to more meaningful interactions and successful outcomes. By catering to their vibrant nature, you ensure that your coaching resonates well and delivers the impact you aim for. Understanding Extroverted Clients Extroverts are known for their lively, outgoing personalities. They draw energy from being around others and thrive in interactive settings. These individuals often enjoy talking things out, participating in group activities, and aren't shy about sharing their thoughts. Motivation for extroverts often comes from external sources, like the people around them or the fast-paced environment they're in. When you think about coaching an extroverted client, consider how these traits can influence your approach. They generally prefer discussions over written communications and often value immediate feedback. Here are a few ways extroverted traits can shape their preferences: - Interaction-Driven: They favor engaging and responsive communication where both sides actively participate. - Visual and Verbal Learning: Extroverts often grasp concepts better through discussions, role-playing, and visual aids. - Feedback-Oriented: Quick responses and constructive feedback can keep them motivated and on track. Understanding these qualities means you can tailor your coaching strategies to be more responsive and engaging, leading to what feels like a productive partnership rather than a one-way interaction. Adapting Your Communication Style Communicating effectively with extroverted clients involves injecting energy and enthusiasm into your sessions. These clients respond well to a setting that matches their vibrant nature. Consider how your voice, gestures, and even your facial expressions can project positivity and engagement. This doesn't mean you have to completely change who you are; rather, it's about matching their energy level to create a more dynamic interaction. Regularly show interest in their inputs to keep them motivated and involved. Active listening is another critical component when coaching extroverts. They want to know that their thoughts and opinions are valued. By actively listening, you show them you care about their perspective. It's equally important to provide immediate feedback. Extroverts appreciate knowing how they are doing right then and there, which helps them feel understood and helps them adjust accordingly if needed. Use feedback as a tool to encourage and guide them, reinforcing their strengths while gently steering them away from unproductive habits. Techniques for Effective Engagement To keep extroverted clients fully engaged, incorporate exciting and interactive activities into your sessions. Group coaching can be particularly effective as these clients enjoy sharing ideas with peers. This environment encourages collaboration and discussion, which can result in new insights and a deeper understanding of the material. If group sessions aren't possible, simulate this interaction by using role-playing exercises. Here are a few practical techniques you might consider: - Interactive Discussions: Encourage clients to discuss ideas and share opinions to foster a collaborative learning atmosphere. - Visual Aids: Use charts, diagrams, and videos to appeal to their preference for visual learning. - Mini Workshops: Plan brief, informal workshops within sessions where clients can test out new concepts in a supportive setting. These activities can make learning more enjoyable for your extroverted clients, keeping them actively involved in their own progress. Building Rapport with Extroverts Creating a strong rapport is fundamental to any coaching relationship, especially with extroverted clients. They usually appreciate coaches who are personable and approachable. Open communication builds trust and encourages them to share freely, which can lead to more effective sessions. Offering genuine praise and recognition for their efforts can boost their confidence. Acknowledge their achievements, no matter how small, to encourage continued engagement. Finding common ground or shared interests can also enhance your connection, making sessions more enjoyable for both parties. Final Thoughts Tailoring your communication to fit the unique needs of extroverted clients can lead to rewarding results. By understanding their traits and adapting your methods, you create a learning environment that resonates with them. This approach not only bolsters their growth but also enhances your effectiveness as a coach. Always be willing to adjust and refine your techniques, reflecting on what works best for each individual, to keep your coaching strategies fresh and impactful. Tailoring your communication techniques for extroverted clients can significantly boost your effectiveness as a coach and deepen your connection with them. If you're looking to refine your approach and explore effective strategies in more depth, consider finding out more about coaching for extroverts with The Coaching Guild. Our resources are designed to help you create meaningful coaching experiences that resonate with your clients and promote growth.
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