A lot of coaches benefit from what clients do not know.

September 24, 2022

Yes, we need to talk about lack of regulation and oversight.

Let’s talk about regulation in the coach

ing industry BECAUSE it is one of the most confronting topics of conversation in any group of coaches behind closed doors.

To be 100% clear – no state in the US and no country globally provide any oversight for or requires any licensure of coaches.
AND to be honest, most clients don’t know that.


Most clients assume their coach is bound by confidentiality requirements and must have met some basic training standards to work with clients. The lack of training requirements or oversight is an insider secret most coaches do not want to talk about in a public space.


A lot of coaches benefit from what clients do not know.


Full transparency: I run a coach training program. We are relentless about training requirements for graduation.

It is a year-long program with multiple faculty instructors and a panel of brilliant veteran guest instructors. We require hundreds of hours of instruction and out-of-class work. Additionally, students must complete many hours of documented client sessions for certification.


So, based on that, you might guess, I believe we need to set standards to call ourselves qualified coaches. The bar isn’t just low. It literally does not exist. In private conversations between coaches, the thought of regulation or standardized requirements for coaches is taboo. Coaches do not want to even discuss it.


There are at least a dozen reasons coaches say they do not want our industry regulated. The most common of those reasons is coaches thrive on the freedom to practice as they see fit. I get that. I love the freedom I have in my practice to work with clients as I see fit.


That said, I believe, secretly, many coaches want to avoid any conversation about training requirements or oversight because they are silently afraid they would not make the cut. A lot of practicing coaches shouldn’t be practicing because they are not qualified. Yep, I said it.


And let us be clear on why so many coaches juggle imposter syndrome:
It can be damn hard to justify our rates based on nebulous qualifications and optional training.


The cost for therapy ranges dramatically regionally. The average is between 100-200 per session. It takes upwards of eight years of college to become a therapist. Coaches charge a lot more than therapists do.


There is a disconnect – especially when a coach is riding on life experience only and banking on lack of regulation.


In a profession that has a wide birth of space to do harm, with no regulation, we have no choice but to regulate ourselves.

In a professional culture that celebrates big money above all else, we are going to have to look ourselves in the mirror, tune out the hyperbolic cheerleading and million-dollar promises and figure out what we need to do to be worth the money we want to charge.


If you are a creative, a rebel, an artist, a misfit, a disrupter, or an outsider,
who wants to change the world one client at a time, check out The Coaching Guild. We will provide the training you need to charge what you want to and feel good about it when you look in the mirror.



May 9, 2025
Don't mistake inspiration for perfectionism on display
communicating to extrovert clients
By Abdul Rahman May 8, 2025
When working as a coach, understanding your client's personality can truly transform how effective your sessions are. People have different ways of communicating, and knowing how to tailor your approach can make all the difference. For coaches, one of the most common personality types you'll encounter is extroversion. Extroverted clients thrive on interaction and social environments, making them dynamic but sometimes challenging to coach without the right approach. Grasping the nuances of personality in coaching helps build trust and enhances results. Extroverts often enjoy being social and spontaneous, making a lively and engaging session more effective for them. A coach's ability to adapt these elements into their strategy can lead to more meaningful interactions and successful outcomes. By catering to their vibrant nature, you ensure that your coaching resonates well and delivers the impact you aim for. Understanding Extroverted Clients Extroverts are known for their lively, outgoing personalities. They draw energy from being around others and thrive in interactive settings. These individuals often enjoy talking things out, participating in group activities, and aren't shy about sharing their thoughts. Motivation for extroverts often comes from external sources, like the people around them or the fast-paced environment they're in. When you think about coaching an extroverted client, consider how these traits can influence your approach. They generally prefer discussions over written communications and often value immediate feedback. Here are a few ways extroverted traits can shape their preferences: - Interaction-Driven: They favor engaging and responsive communication where both sides actively participate. - Visual and Verbal Learning: Extroverts often grasp concepts better through discussions, role-playing, and visual aids. - Feedback-Oriented: Quick responses and constructive feedback can keep them motivated and on track. Understanding these qualities means you can tailor your coaching strategies to be more responsive and engaging, leading to what feels like a productive partnership rather than a one-way interaction. Adapting Your Communication Style Communicating effectively with extroverted clients involves injecting energy and enthusiasm into your sessions. These clients respond well to a setting that matches their vibrant nature. Consider how your voice, gestures, and even your facial expressions can project positivity and engagement. This doesn't mean you have to completely change who you are; rather, it's about matching their energy level to create a more dynamic interaction. Regularly show interest in their inputs to keep them motivated and involved. Active listening is another critical component when coaching extroverts. They want to know that their thoughts and opinions are valued. By actively listening, you show them you care about their perspective. It's equally important to provide immediate feedback. Extroverts appreciate knowing how they are doing right then and there, which helps them feel understood and helps them adjust accordingly if needed. Use feedback as a tool to encourage and guide them, reinforcing their strengths while gently steering them away from unproductive habits. Techniques for Effective Engagement To keep extroverted clients fully engaged, incorporate exciting and interactive activities into your sessions. Group coaching can be particularly effective as these clients enjoy sharing ideas with peers. This environment encourages collaboration and discussion, which can result in new insights and a deeper understanding of the material. If group sessions aren't possible, simulate this interaction by using role-playing exercises. Here are a few practical techniques you might consider: - Interactive Discussions: Encourage clients to discuss ideas and share opinions to foster a collaborative learning atmosphere. - Visual Aids: Use charts, diagrams, and videos to appeal to their preference for visual learning. - Mini Workshops: Plan brief, informal workshops within sessions where clients can test out new concepts in a supportive setting. These activities can make learning more enjoyable for your extroverted clients, keeping them actively involved in their own progress. Building Rapport with Extroverts Creating a strong rapport is fundamental to any coaching relationship, especially with extroverted clients. They usually appreciate coaches who are personable and approachable. Open communication builds trust and encourages them to share freely, which can lead to more effective sessions. Offering genuine praise and recognition for their efforts can boost their confidence. Acknowledge their achievements, no matter how small, to encourage continued engagement. Finding common ground or shared interests can also enhance your connection, making sessions more enjoyable for both parties. Final Thoughts Tailoring your communication to fit the unique needs of extroverted clients can lead to rewarding results. By understanding their traits and adapting your methods, you create a learning environment that resonates with them. This approach not only bolsters their growth but also enhances your effectiveness as a coach. Always be willing to adjust and refine your techniques, reflecting on what works best for each individual, to keep your coaching strategies fresh and impactful. Tailoring your communication techniques for extroverted clients can significantly boost your effectiveness as a coach and deepen your connection with them. If you're looking to refine your approach and explore effective strategies in more depth, consider finding out more about coaching for extroverts with The Coaching Guild. Our resources are designed to help you create meaningful coaching experiences that resonate with your clients and promote growth.
Attracting your first client is about building connections and demonstrating genuine value.
By Abdul Rahman May 2, 2025
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